1. It won’t make you feel better. Sadly, evidence shows that people who seek revenge instead of forgiving or letting go, tend to feel worse in the long run. You are much better off channelling your energy into moving forward positively with your life.

Common triggers of vindictive behavior in NPD Underneath an apparent sense of superiority, there might also be an exaggerated need to feel approved and loved, and a vulnerable self-esteem. In this sense, some people with NPD might experience any hint of rejection as a trigger for vindictive behavior.

“People who are more vengeful tend to be those who are motivated by power, by authority and by the desire for status,” he says. He found that the students whose answers showed a deference to authority and respect for traditions and social dominance, had the most favorable opinions about revenge and retribution.

People are motivated to seek revenge — to harm someone who has harmed them — when they feel attacked, mistreated or socially rejected. Getting an eye for an eye, Old Testament-style, is thought to bring a sense of catharsis and closure. A growing body of research suggests it may have the opposite effect.

But while the need for revenge can be understandable, experts say it is never healthy. Some people equate revenge with seeking justice, but the two are not the same. People who seek revenge are driven by anger and violence and have not thought about how channel their negative feelings into something positive.

Well, the science is in, and a recent psychology study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology suggests that getting revenge actually does make you feel a lot happier. Worth noting, though, is that it still doesn’t necessarily mean it’s the right move to make.

Forgiving others and releasing the desire to get revenge makes you a better person—literally. However, forgiving someone doesn’t make you a pushover, and it’s not about letting the other person “off the hook”. Instead, forgiveness is about overcoming your anger and quelching your desire to punish the other person.

Here are 7 reasons why seeking revenge is a bad idea:

• It won’t make you feel better.
• In fact, it might make you feel worse.
• It could backfire.
• You are wasting precious time.
• Because, karma.
• Two wrongs don’t make a right.
• You could get caught in an endless revenge loop.

Tips

1. Get some distance from the conflict.
2. Understand that revenge is not a constructive conflict resolution.
3. Realise that carrying anger and seeking revenge consumes your energy and your time.
4. Know that you have a choice.
5. Use empathy and honesty to help ease yourself away from the need for revenge.

It’s an alright fighting move but it’s by no means excellent.

How to Get Revenge Anonymously

1. Cyranwrap the persons car.
2. Put wet ink on the inside door handle of their car.
3. Sign them up for every source of spam mail imaginable.
4. Ship them tons of weird, cheap items from China.
5. Hide something foul smelling in their car.
6. Drip honey all over their stuff.

Success is the best revenge because it’s sweet and simple. It’s you coming into your identity and power, rather than allowing anyone else to define who you are or what you’re worth. Doubters are gonna doubt, haters are gonna hate, but you’re not gonna care because success blocks all that shade!

1. Make someone fall in love with you.
2. Make that person believe you love him/her truly and can’t live without him/her.
3. Show him/her dreams of your happy future together .
4. Once they trust you completely that both of you are made for each other and nothing can make you apart.
5. Trust me this will ruin their life completely.

Ignoring the ignorer is the best revenge The ability to remain silent and ignore another individual is not exclusive to you. Though ignoring others is an effective way of disarming the malicious and abusive, it always remains painful to be ignored ourselves.

Worse still, studies have shown that the pain of being ignored is worse than being bullied. You are experiencing social pain, which you feel when you’re being ignored, overlooked or rejected. The problem being social pain is very real because it shares common neural pathways to physical pain.

Being ignored is much worse than being blocked and is equivalent to psychological torture. Silent treatments are a perfect example of “ignoring” behavior. It’s an extremely cruel form of treatment and is often used a form of manipulation.

Blocking, going full no contact only assures that they will have to put more effort into getting through to you. Ignoring leaves easier avenues for them to get to you. You can modify your ignoring protocol make it a bit harder for them. Block them from all your social media, and change your passwords.

Originally Answered: Why do narcissists block then unblock people? Because narcissists are curious people when you no longer do what they expected. They could block you or attack you with all sorts of irrelevant points in a power play that is supposed to continue their influence over you.