We pick fights because we can’t figure out what we’re really upset about. Or we’re trying not to admit what we’re really upset about, trying to push it under the rug, only to let it come seeping out in tiny, insignificant, dirty moments. We’re as ashamed as anyone about these moments.

Perhaps most important of all, debate is fun! You may have to cajole your son or daughter to go to their test prep class or do their homework, but debate makes learning a game; students build their critical thinking and speaking skills without it ever feeling like work.

Advocating and arguing on behalf of a particular point of view, as well as understanding and responding to counterpoints, are part of a politician’s job. Debate skills are critical to winning arguments, as other politicians will have opposing views.

We are so caught up in pleasing others and being what others want— a.k.a. codependency— that we have long lost a sense of self. We also don’t feel enough self-esteem to feel our needs are worthy of being met, so resort to getting them passively aggressively — by picking fights.

Ignoring your ex after your breakup with a no contact rule is the best thing you could do and here’s a quick rundown of why it works so well: It allows you more time to focus on yourself and lead an improved life. It showcases a stable and secure side of you.

Blocking, going full no contact only assures that they will have to put more effort into getting through to you. Ignoring leaves easier avenues for them to get to you. You can modify your ignoring protocol make it a bit harder for them. Block them from all your social media, and change your passwords.

1. It’s not too late to rekindle that flame. But it’s going to take work.
2. Listen to What She Says.
3. Open Up to Her.
4. Make the Everyday Special.
5. Put More Effort into Your Physical Appearance.
6. Have a Regular ‘Date Night’
7. Learn How to Make Her Fall in Love with You Again.

If you want a woman who is genuinely special, you should be treating her that way.

1. Make her feel beautiful, every day. This one seems obvious.
2. Be honest. This is another big one.
3. Kiss her.
4. Don’t compare her to other women.
5. Don’t miss the little things.
6. Listen.
7. Start, and end your day with her.
8. Give her massages.

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1. Genuinely appreciate her weirdness and peculiarities.
2. When she’s in doubt (about her appearance), comfort her.
3. Hold her hand and let everyone see how proud you are of her.
4. Let her be with her fashion choices – and don’t interfere.
5. Don’t say anything about how she wears her makeup.