The “unbearable lightness” in the title also refers to the lightness of love and sex, which are themes of the novel. Kundera portrays love as fleeting, haphazard and possibly based upon endless strings of coincidences, despite holding much significance for humans.

Successful surgeon Tomas (Daniel Day-Lewis) leaves Prague for an operation, meets a young photographer named Tereza (Juliette Binoche), and brings her back with him. Tereza is surprised to learn that Tomas is already having an affair with the bohemian Sabina (Lena Olin), but when the Soviet invasion occurs, all three flee to Switzerland. Sabina begins an affair, Tom continues womanizing, and Tereza, disgusted, returns to Czechoslovakia. Realizing his mistake, Tomas decides to chase after her.

Franz: Sabina’s lover and a Geneva professor and idealist. Franz falls in love with Sabina, whom he considers a liberal and romantically tragic Czech dissident. He is a kind and compassionate man. As one of the novel’s dreamers, Franz bases his actions on loyalty to the memories of his mother and Sabina.

It is important to be polite because it puts other people at ease and helps build strong relationships. Politeness also helps decrease the social distance between two people, making it easier to communicate. Being polite is especially important when communicating with customers and colleagues.

People Skills: Responding to Disrespect With Dignity

1. Focus on human dignity vs. the need to be right.
2. Clearly set limits on verbal abuse without abusing.
3. Consider how you would feel.
4. Know yourself & your hot buttons.
5. Clarify goals instead of assuming the worst.
6. Trust that dignity doesn’t cause defeat.
7. Let time provide insight and answers.

Yes! If he is indecisive, then he will change his mind often. If he is a serious type of individual that truly values you, then he will have to prove that he is a changed man.