How to Believe in Yourself & Change Your Life in the Process

“I can’t really see it, but thank you.” Most people, if they say you resemble a celebrity, mean this as a compliment….

• Smile and say thanks.
• Start talking to them and see if they are genuine or trying to milk you or making fun of you sarcastically.
• If yes, smile and move on.
• if no, follow step 3.

“I believe you” means that you know that a person is telling the truth. “I believe in you” means that you admire the person for his or her good qualities and feel that he or she will be able to succeed.

• Believe it’s possible. Believe that you can do it regardless of what anyone says or where you are in life.
• Visualize it. Think about exactly what your life would look like if you had already achieved your dream.
• Act as if.
• Take action towards your goals.

3. Keep your independence.

1. Take stock of your value. When you feel insecure, you are often focused on something you feel is lacking about you.
2. Build your self-esteem. Research shows that people with more relationship insecurity tend to have poorer self-esteem.
3. Keep your independence.
4. Trust in yourself.

People with a secure attachment style tend to be warm, loving, comfortable with closeness and don’t worry too much about the status of the relationship. Those with an anxious attachment style crave intimacy but require more reassurance than those with other styles.

Follow these steps to make sure you ease a man’s insecurity.

1. Reassure Him. An insecure man will worry that he isn’t good enough for you.
2. Understand His Fears.
3. Do Something To Make Him Feel Loved.
4. Avoid Criticism Or Frustration.
5. Build Trust.
6. Don’t Try To Change Him.
7. Be Attentive When Around Male Friends.
8. Invite Him Out Socially.

Here are 11 things guys are insecure about on a daily basis, but never admit to women that they’re concerned.

• Men also really worry about their looks.
• Their ability to make money is a huge issue.
• Guys can also be insecure about their personalities.
• Many men are really insecure about the concept of being a man.

Men have plenty of insecurities — but good luck getting them to talk about it. Men who own up to their insecurities often feel as though being vulnerable is akin to admitting inadequacy. “Men feel insecure about being seen as less-than,” marriage and family therapist Hanalei Vierra says.