The 13 Essential Friendship Traits

Method 1 of 2: Act Positive

1. Smile. Do not look like a goof when you smile; just smile like you always do. Be cute and happy, but not over the top!
2. Laugh heartily. Laugh to feel good, laugh to cheer up others and laugh with others.
3. Have fun. Everyone likes a person who is fun, social, and outgoing!

• Willpower.
• Patience.
• Integrity.
• Passion.
• Connection.
• Optimism. You know there is much to achieve and much good in this world, and you know what’s worth fighting for.
• Self-confidence. You trust yourself.
• Communication. You work to communicate and pay attention to the communicators around you.

Now for the personal qualities.

• Joy. Also known as: Gratitude; optimism; cheerfulness; hope; humor; satisfaction; and appreciation.
• Kindness. Also known as: Compassion; generosity; patience; service; warmth; and sensitivity.
• Humility.
• Equanimity.
• Non attachment/Letting go.
• Trust.
• Calmness/ tranquillity.
• Courage.

• I am trustworthy.
• I am honest with others.
• I am generally very dependable.
• I am loyal to the people I care about.
• I am easily able to trust others.
• I experience and express empathy for others.
• I am able to be non-judgmental.
• I am a good listener.

So here’s a hundred ready-made compliments to try out yourself:

1. You’re an awesome friend.
2. You’re a gift to those around you.
3. You’re a smart cookie.
4. You are awesome!
5. You have impeccable manners.
6. I like your style.
7. You have the best laugh.
8. I appreciate you.

What to Say to Someone

• You are more fun than anyone or anything I know, including bubble wrap.
• You are the most perfect you there is.
• You are enough.
• You are one of the strongest people I know.
• You look great today.
• You have the best smile.
• Your outlook on life is amazing.
• You just light up the room.