No. It’s simply not a good idea. Usually if your looking for closure that just means you have resolved questions and concerns. They are an ex for a reason, think about what needs to be done for your best intentions just because you want the closure doesn’t mean you need it.

Closure. a Gestalt principle of organization holding that there is an innate tendency to perceive incomplete objects as complete and to close or fill gaps and to perceive asymmetric stimuli as symmetric. Connectedness. a Gestalt grouping principle; elements that are connected to each other group together.

3. Gather your strengths.

1. Focus on the positives.
2. Surround yourself with people who know you well, encourage and support you.
3. Shift the emphasis to what you need, what makes you happy.
4. Assess where you can make positive change in your life.
5. Define and affirm what you’re able to do something about now.

Exes don’t speak because they have moved on or they are afraid to speak. If you speak to your ex, you start to remember all the good memories you two shared and start wanting that unity with that person again. So after a break up, it’s best to not speak to your ex partner either for a long time or never again.

Narcissists don’t answer questions because they like it when you are confused and uncertain. So rather than give you any sort of clarity, they either don’t answer at all, or they only offer very vague answers. Or, in some cases, they’ll say something that is completely out of context.

1. They can only care about how they feel and can’t put themselves in our shoes. Whatever is causing them to leave or you to leave, they don’t care if we have closure or not. Narcissists and their partners have always had different narratives of the relationship and that’s no different at the end.

Men don’t want closure because the majority of them come back, or they stick you on their reserve team and rotate you. Men don’t stay with women they feel sorry for. Additionally 90% of the time he will not tell you the real reason for the break up and if he will tell you a reason a lot of time it’s actually a lie.

Narcissists do not want to be accountable for anything they have said or done. A narcissist loves to be unclear and illogical. They do not want to be accountable for anything they have said or done.

Narcissists manipulate empaths by stringing them along with intermittent hope. They will integrate compliments and kindness into their behaviour, making their victim believe that if they behave in the correct manner, they will get the loving person back who they once knew.