It is with our deepest sorrow that we inform you of the death of our beloved husband and father (insert name). With great sadness, we announce the loss of our beloved father, (insert name). In loving memory of (insert name), we are saddened to announce their passing on (insert date).

Resort to the noun demise when you describe the end, termination, or death of something or someone. Demise is mostly used in medical or legal language, or when someone wants to sound either formal or euphemistic.

Both the words mean ‘end or ending of life’. ‘Demise’ is mostly used in formal contexts to refer to the death of someone or something very important or well known. ‘Death’ is a much more general term and unlike ‘demise’, it can be used with things and animals.

Immediate Personal Condolences

1. I’m so sorry to hear of your loss.
2. I’m stunned by this news.
3. My heart aches to hear this news.
4. I love you and I’m here for you.
5. Please know that your friends love you and are here for you.
6. I’m so sorry.
7. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
8. God bless you and your family.

Example Letter #2 Our family is deeply saddened to inform you that Grandmother passed away in her sleep Wednesday night. As many of you know, she has been suffering from kidney failure for some time now. We are relieved that her passing was peaceful and painless.

Condolences

1. “We are so sorry for your loss.”
2. “I’m going to miss her, too.”
3. “I hope you feel surrounded by much love.”
4. “Sharing in your sadness as you remember Dan.”
5. “Sending healing prayers and comforting hugs.
6. “With deepest sympathy as you remember Robert.”
7. “I was saddened to hear that your grandfather passed away.

The Best Things to Say to Someone in Grief

1. I am so sorry for your loss.
2. I wish I had the right words, just know I care.
3. I don’t know how you feel, but I am here to help in any way I can.
4. You and your loved one will be in my thoughts and prayers.
5. My favorite memory of your loved one is…
6. I am always just a phone call away.

What happens when death is just hours or minutes away? As death nears, it’s very common for a person’s breathing to change, sometimes slowing, other times speeding up or becoming noisy and shallow. The changes are triggered by reduction in blood flow, and they’re not painful.

What to Say in Person to Someone Who Lost a Wife

• “[Name] was such a special person. She truly made the world a better place.
• “What a beautiful service. It really did [Name] justice.
• “It’s wonderful to see how many people made it here to pay their respects today.
• “I’m so sorry I never got to meet your wife.

Be available: Often the best way to help someone grieving the death of a spouse is to just be there. Let to them talk about their feelings….Below are samples of the types of sentiments you can include.

1. “It’s too bad he/she died. I will always remember him/her.”
2. “It’s so tragic.
3. “I’m saddened by your loss.

1. The do’s:

• Just reach out.
• Then, judge their reaction.
• Find your own way to express your love.
• Listen.
• Acknowledge just how bad it really is.
• Offer to connect them to people going through something similar, if you do know anyone.
• Give little and often.
• Prepare for the worst.

Her grief will affect her for a long time. Offer to help around the house. Better yet just do things that need to be done. Offer hugs, listen to her talk about her mother.

Here are some more specific things you can say or offer:

1. “I’m sorry you’re in so much pain.”
2. “I can’t even imagine what you’re going through.
3. “You’re not alone.”
4. “I’m here for you.” The caveat here is to only say it if you mean it, and are willing to help the person out in any way you can.