General rules of thumb: Only take enthusiastic “yes” (either verbal or nonverbal) as “yes.” Take “no,” “maybe,” and doing nothing all as no; even take a hesitant “yes” as no. If they seem hesitant, give them time and space to make a decision without pressure.

Consent sentence example. There’s no way he’d consent to travel all the way from Boston. Prince Andrew needed his father’s consent to his marriage, and to obtain this he started for the country next day. I don’t consent , my dear, I don’t!

verb (used without object) to permit, approve, or agree; comply or yield (often followed by to or an infinitive): He consented to the proposal. We asked her permission, and she consented. Archaic. to agree in sentiment, opinion, etc.; be in harmony.

Here are some strategies for avoiding power struggles that you can use right away:

1. Develop a relationship early on.
2. Hide your frustrations.
3. Be kind.
4. Give the expectation and run.
5. Ignore what you can ignore.
6. Let the child or young adult get the last word.
7. Listen and validate.
8. Explain your reasoning.

The typical power struggle occurs when the teacher makes a request and a student refuses to comply. Not wanting to look weak and ineffectual, the teacher responds to the non-compliance in a more adamant tone demanding compliance.

Here’s how to empower your kids:

1. Ask for help. Like parents, kids need to feel useful and needed.
2. Offer a limited choice. Let them pick one of two choices: You may _____ or you may _____.
3. Let your kid pick when something is done.
4. Create routines with your child.
5. Work together for solutions.

Being persistent and determined can be a good thing. According to Laura Markham, clinical psychologist at Columbia University, strong-willed children want to learn things for themselves rather than accept what others say, so they test the limits over and over again. …

Here are some of our experts’ ideas to help you raise powerful daughters.

1. Encourage your daughter to pursue a passion.
2. Let her have a voice in making decisions.
3. Identify the values most important to your family.
4. Encourage her to solve issues on her own rather than fixing things for her.

Some of the many causes of low self-esteem may include: Unhappy childhood where parents (or other significant people such as teachers) were extremely critical. Poor academic performance in school resulting in a lack of confidence. Ongoing stressful life event such as relationship breakdown or financial trouble.