Keep the letter brief and to-the-point. State your request in a polite way and then explain your reasoning. Make sure to tell them whether you would prefer a written or verbal response. For example, you might write, “I think I need a bra because my chest frequently hurts when we play sports in school.

Ask while you are out shopping. If you are uncomfortable asking your mom directly, then you can try suggesting the idea of wearing a bra. Arrange a time to go shopping with your mom. When you are approaching the bra department or store in the mall, ask if you two can go in together to check it out.

If you are afraid that your mom will be harsh or overly critical, or you just cannot get over your embarrassment, then try this strategy. Write a note detailing why you think you need a bra. Give her the note when she is not busy. Tell her to read the note, think about it and come talk to you afterwards.

You could ask your mom if you can go with your friends, and when you get there you can also buy other things, and if your mom asks what you bought you can just show her the other items you purchased.

Start doing your own laundry, so then you can just keep your girl’s clothes hidden in your closet without you parents looking around in there. Some items from Amazon can be shipped to a pickup point. Amazon Locker is the US and it’s literally an electronic locker you pick stuff up from.

Places like your underwear drawer, under the mattress, or at the top of your closet are obvious hiding locations for things. Your parents probably tried these areas when they were younger! Use strange or more complicated hiding areas for greater success. Try hiding something in a sibling’s room.

SpareFoot also asked parents to give up their preferred hiding spots, and these are the most popular results:

• 34.7 percent of parents hide presents in the closet.
• 18.1 percent in random spaces throughout the house.
• 12.5 percent in the garage.
• 9.6 percent in the car.
• 9.2 percent under the bed.

Try arranging group hangouts or inviting the person over to your house. Also, consider talking to your parents about why it is they don’t want you to date. Maybe you can come up with some kind of compromise so that you don’t have to lie to them. My boyfriend’s parents found our text messages and won’t let him date me.

If you haven’t found the one at your school, workplace, or local coffee shop, online might be the perfect place to find a girlfriend. You can connect with women who share your interests and build a relationship at your own pace.

No. You’re eleven, and should just be trying to focus on getting friends and doing well in school. Allow yourself to wait till you’re older and have a better idea of what you like in a person all you can really enjoy going on dates.