10 Signs He’s Playing You & You’re Letting Him

“I feel upset when I’m lied to; I want people to be honest with me.” C. “You are usually an honest person, but I know you are lying.”

Research has consistently shown that people’s ability to detect lies is no more accurate than chance, or flipping a coin. This finding holds across all types of people — students, psychologists, judges, job interviewers and law enforcement personnel (Personality and Social Psychology Review, 2006).

If you are certain you are being lied to, you can react in one out of four ways:

1. You can do nothing. Maybe you are not winning much from calling someone out.
2. Use humor – acknowledge the lie but give the liar a chance to admit without creating an awkward situation.
3. Interrogate the defendant.
4. Call them out.

14 Warning Signs He’s Playing You For A Fool (And You Need To Let Him Go)

• He doesn’t call you when he says he’s going to.
• He’s often late and doesn’t call to let you know.
• He doesn’t show up at all (and doesn’t call) when you have plans to see him.
• He has rules about how often he can see you.

• He finds every excuse to not commit to you.
• He hasn’t deleted his dating apps.
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• He doesn’t bring you around his friends.
• He’s dismissive of your role in his life.
• He has flirty exchanges with other women on social media.
• He makes plans that he never fulfills.

According to Barrett, some forms of mind games aren’t necessarily classifiable. Instead, they’re simply “when your words and your actions don’t match.” “For example, you say you want a relationship but you never commit the time, energy or emotional investment to make that relationship possible,” he says.

I have listed some of the most common mind games that men tend to play.

1. They Make You Feel Guilty​ One of the most common mind games that men tend to use is the guilt trip.
2. It Becomes Your Fault​
3. The IOU​
4. They Act As The Perfect Date​
5. He Is Inattentive​

Take it as a life lesson.

1. How to play a guy at his own game.
2. #1 Slightly acknowledge him.
3. #2 Stop giving him attention.
4. #3 Flirt with other guys.
5. #4 Don’t fall for his charm.
6. #5 Have a good time *without him*.
7. #6 Don’t sleep with him.
8. #7 Keep the mystery alive.

Here are 15 signs he’s playing hard to get.

• 8 He’s A Bit Creepy.
• 9 You’re A Secret.
• 10 He Guards His Past.
• 11 You Rarely See Him.
• 12 He Drops Future Hints.
• 13 You’re Insecure.
• 14 He Texts Sporadically.
• 15 He’s Hot And Cold.

When you play hard to get, he comes back around On the opposite end of the spectrum, when you play hard to get, the guy usually will crack (if he truly likes you) and come running back. It starts to become a tug-of-war match. It’s a pride thing where if one person pulls away, the other will also pull away.

Signs He Is Losing Interest

1. His attention towards you has dramatically dropped.
2. He stops making plans and going on dates with you.
3. He becomes vague.
4. He dodges questions about the future.
5. He stops trying to be romantic.
6. He starts acting rude.
7. He thinks of you as a friend.
8. He hits on you all the time.

After I run through these 15 indicators, let’s talk about some of the reasons why he might be hiding those feelings from you.

• 1) He tries to impress you.
• 2) He gives you mixed signals.
• 3) He helps you (a lot)
• 4) He has flashes of jealousy.
• 5) He keeps strong eye contact.
• 6) He’s always asking questions (and listening)

They don’t understand what they really feel One of the reasons why men hide their feelings is because they simply don’t understand what they feel. So, when a man starts feeling overwhelmed by not understanding what is really going on, it comes to him naturally to retreat to his man cave and hide his feelings.